Guest list & RSVPs
Import your invite list, watch replies land by name: adults, children, dietary notes, song requests. No re-typing, ever.
Private beta
OurNoce is the operating system for your wedding. Guest list, seating, checklist, budget, vendors, logins for your wedding party, and every guest's flight tracked in real time. One system, run by the two of you.
No spam. One email when your invite is ready.
Already running a real wedding: Marie-Louise & Cedric, four days in Los Cabos, April 2027, around 180 guests. See their site →
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The Mensah party · 5 coming, 1 under 12Flight change
Grandma Rose · AS 641 delayed 55mChecklist
Final headcount due to the resort in 9 daysWhy we exist
The big sites hand you a page and a registry, then leave the actual wedding to a spreadsheet, a group chat and a shoebox of contracts. The work is the logistics. That is what we built.
A template site, a registry, a vendor marketplace that is really selling to you. Guest list in one tab, seating in another, payments in your inbox.
Re-typing the same 180 names into four tools. Redoing the seating chart every time an RSVP changes. Answering "what time does Auntie land?" forty times.
One record per guest, and every module reads from it. An RSVP changes the seating, the headcount, the budget and the arrivals board at once.
The platform
Import your invite list, watch replies land by name: adults, children, dietary notes, song requests. No re-typing, ever.
Set the tables, reserve a few, let it generate the plan. Move a party by hand and it stays moved. Every reply re-checks the chart.
A plan that knows your date. Deposits, fittings, final counts, all counted back from the day, with an owner on every line.
Bridesmaids and groomsmen get their own accounts: attire, fittings, flights, passports, what they owe. They tick their own boxes.
Estimate, actual, paid, outstanding, against every vendor and every room block, with the maths shown.
Every quote, contract and deadline in one book, with the payment dates pushed into your checklist automatically.
Text everyone, or only the 24 who have not booked a room. Dry run first: who gets it, in what words, before a single message sends.
Who has booked, who needs help, which nights, which flights. The arrivals board below is the live version.
The part nobody else does
Guests send their flight number once. From then on OurNoce watches every one of them: delays, gate changes, missed connections, who is actually landing when.
It reads the consequences too. A late arrival that will miss the welcome dinner. Four guests who could share one transfer. The shuttle that now needs to leave an hour later. You stop being the airline.
Everyone in their own seat
You decide who sees what. Your maid of honour can run the guest list. Your groomsmen see only their own eight tasks. The budget stays yours until you hand it over.
The coupleEverything, including the money.
Maid of honourGuest list, seating, messaging. No budget.
GroomsmanHis own checklist: suit, shoes, flight, passport.
Planner or parentRead-only, or exactly the tabs you grant.
Our first couple
Four days in Los Cabos, April 2027. Around 180 guests, several countries, one all-inclusive resort and a room block to chase. Their guest site, RSVPs, seating, checklist and messaging run on OurNoce today. Everything on this page exists because their wedding needed it.
Join the waitlist
We are onboarding couples in small groups so we can set the first one up with you personally. The nearer your date, the sooner we call.